It comes up every few months that we can't understand why
the go command is rebuilding some package.
Add diagnostics so that the go command can explain itself
if asked.

For #2775, #3506, #12074.

Change-Id: I1c73b492589b49886bf31a8f9d05514adbd6ed70
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/22432Reviewed-by: Rob Pike <r@golang.org>