When running a Query on Stmt a dependency is added to the stmt and
rows. To do that it needs a reference to Rows, so the releaseConn
function is defined after the definition. However the
rows.initContextClose was set to run before the releaseConn was
set on rows, setting up a situation where the connection could
be canceled before the releaseConn was set and resulting in
a segfault.

Fixes #20160

Change-Id: I5592e7db2cf653dfc48d42cbc2b03ca20501b1a0
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/42139
Run-TryBot: Daniel Theophanes <kardianos@gmail.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>