Currently the extra Ms created for cgo callbacks have a corresponding
G that's kept in syscall state with only a call to goexit on its
stack. This leads to confusing output from runtime.NumGoroutines and
in tracebacks:

goroutine 17 [syscall, locked to thread]:
runtime.goexit()
	.../src/runtime/asm_amd64.s:2197 +0x1

Fix this by putting this goroutine into state _Gdead when it's not in
use instead of _Gsyscall. To keep the goroutine counts correct, we
also add one to sched.ngsys while the goroutine is in _Gdead. The
effect of this is as if the goroutine simply doesn't exist when it's
not in use.

Fixes #16631.
Fixes #16714.

Change-Id: Ieae08a2febd4b3d00bef5c23fd6ca88fb2bb0087
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/45030
Run-TryBot: Austin Clements <austin@google.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>