net: make WriteTo, WriteToUnix and WriteMsgUnix fail when connectionless-mode UnixConn is already connected

This CL tries to fill the gap between Linux and other Unix-like systems
in the same way UDPConn already did.

Fixes #7677.

LGTM=iant
R=golang-codereviews, iant
CC=golang-codereviews
https://golang.org/cl/83330045