CL 60410 fixes a bug in reflect that allows assignments to an embedded
field of a pointer to an unexported struct type.
This breaks the json package because unmarshal is now unable to assign
a newly allocated struct to such fields.

In order to be consistent in the behavior for marshal and unmarshal,
this CL changes both marshal and unmarshal to always ignore
embedded pointers to unexported structs.

Fixes #21357

Change-Id: If62ea11155555e61115ebb9cfa5305caf101bde5
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/76851
Run-TryBot: Joe Tsai <thebrokentoaster@gmail.com>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>