Currently we always delete both read and write timers and then
add them again. However, if user setups read and write deadline
separately, then we don't need to touch the other one.

name                  old time/op  new time/op  delta
TCP4OneShotTimeout-6  17.2µs ± 0%  17.2µs ± 0%     ~     (p=0.310 n=5+5)
SetReadDeadline-6      319ns ± 1%   274ns ± 2%  -13.94%  (p=0.008 n=5+5)

Update #25729

Change-Id: I4c869c3083521de6d0cd6ca99a7609d4dd84b4e4
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/c/146338Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>