Before this CL, if the system resolver does a very slow DNS
lookup for a particular host, all subsequent requests for that
host will hang waiting for that lookup to complete.  That is
more or less expected when Dial is called with no deadline.
When Dial has a deadline, though, we can accumulate a large
number of goroutines waiting for that slow DNS lookup.  Try to
avoid this problem by restarting the DNS lookup when it is
redone after a deadline is passed.

This CL also avoids creating an extra goroutine purely to
handle the deadline.

No test because we would have to simulate a slow DNS lookup
followed by a fast DNS lookup.

Fixes #8602.

LGTM=bradfitz
R=bradfitz, mikioh.mikioh
CC=golang-codereviews, r, rsc
https://golang.org/cl/154610044