Once we've evicted all the blocked I/O, the ref count
should go to zero quickly, so it should be safe to
postpone the close(2) until then.

Fixes #1898.
Fixes #2116.
Fixes #2122.

R=golang-dev, mikioh.mikioh, bradfitz, fullung, iant
CC=golang-dev
https://golang.org/cl/5649076