At least on Darwin, if getaddrinfo can't open a file descriptor it
returns EAI_NONAME ("no such host") rather than a meaningful error.
Limit the number of concurrent getaddrinfo calls to the number of file
descriptors we can open, to make that meaningless error less likely.

We don't apply the same limit to Go lookups, because for that we will
return a meaningful "too many open files" error.

Fixes #25694

Change-Id: I601857190aeb64f11e22b4a834c1c6a722a0788d
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/121176Reviewed-by: Bryan C. Mills <bcmills@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>