The current Open method limits the ability for driver maintainers
to expose options for their drivers by forcing all the configuration
to pass through the DSN in order to create a *DB.

This CL allows driver maintainers to write their own initialization
functions that return a *DB making configuration of the underlying
drivers easier.

Fixes #20268

Change-Id: Ib10b794f36a201bbb92c23999c8351815d38eedb
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/53430Reviewed-by: Daniel Theophanes <kardianos@gmail.com>
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