In tests TransportPersistConnLeak and TransportPersistConnLeakShortBody,
there's a fixed wait time (100ms and 400ms respectively) to allow
goroutines to exit after CloseIdleConnections is called. This
is sometimes too short on a slow host running many simultaneous
tests.

This CL replaces the fixed sleep in each test with a sequence of
shorter sleeps, testing the number of remaining goroutines until
it reaches the threshold or an overall time limit of 500ms expires.
This prevents some failures in the plan9_arm builder, while reducing
the test time on faster machines.

Fixes #14887

Change-Id: Ia5c871062df139e2667cdfb2ce8283e135435318
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/20922
Run-TryBot: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>
TryBot-Result: Gobot Gobot <gobot@golang.org>
Reviewed-by: Brad Fitzpatrick <bradfitz@golang.org>