Fixes #11131

When running 'go install -buildmode=c-shared', under the circumstances
described in issue #11131, the install command would fail trying to
install cgo headers if they have already been installed (by a previous
call to 'go install -buildmode=c-shared').

Since it's safe to overwrite said headers (according to iant@), this CL
introduces a parameter to builder's 'copy' and 'move' functions that,
if set to 'true', would force the overwriting of already installed
files.

This parameter value is set to 'true' only when installing cgo headers,
for now.

Change-Id: I5bda17ee757066a8e5d2b39f2e8f3a389eb1e4a2
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/10870
Run-TryBot: Srdjan Petrovic <spetrovic@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Ian Lance Taylor <iant@golang.org>